Maybe you expected your partner to be surprised when you told him you were pregnant. What you didn’t expect was for him to pull away, say he wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy, or tell you that you’re on your own.
That can leave you thinking about much more than the relationship. You may suddenly have questions about appointments, housing, money, or who will be there when you need help.
We know this situation can feel overwhelming right now, but you don’t need to figure things out on your own. Birthright of West Chester can help you look at those needs one at a time.
Schedule an appointment online or call us at (610) 436-0773 to speak with a caring team member.
Start With What’s in Front of You
“Doing this without him” can sound like an enormous hurdle. Identifying your top concerns, however, can make it easier to see where help may be available.
For example, does your current living situation depend on your relationship? If your partner’s response to the pregnancy has made your housing feel uncertain, learning about available housing programs can help you prepare and feel more secure if you need to move.
The same is true for concerns about employment, rent, groceries, medical expenses, or baby supplies. A wide range of programs may be available to help you and your child thrive.
Knowing exactly what you need makes it easier to start looking for answers.
Look Beyond Your Partner
Your partner may have been the person you expected to rely on, but he doesn’t have to be the only possible source of help.
Birthright can provide referrals for medical services, housing assistance, rental assistance, material items, and other community resources. Different programs or people may be able to help with different needs.
We also offer free support services with maternity clothing, baby clothing and items, monthly diapers and wipes, and long-term emotional support. Birthright is here for you every step of the way.
In addition to community resources, you may also have family members or friends who can help in smaller ways, such as providing a ride, helping with groceries, or passing along baby items they no longer use. Help may be closer than you think.
When His Opinion Turns Into Pressure
A partner can be upset about a pregnancy and still respect that the decision is yours.
Threats, intimidation, withholding money or transportation, interfering with appointments, or trying to force you into an abortion are different. You never deserve abuse, and your safety should always be the priority.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For free, confidential local support, contact the Domestic Violence Center of Chester County 24/7 at 888-711-6270 or 610-431-1430. If you are in Chester County and cannot call safely, you can also text 911.
Find Out What Help Is Actually Available
Your partner’s response may change, or it may not. Either way, you can start identifying the resources available based on your situation today.
Schedule an appointment with Birthright of West Chester online or call (610) 436-0773. We can help you identify resources, and provide the support you’re looking for and can trust.